being a mother or a career freak woman (an issue of feminism)

Well, I know these days there are this emancipation where women are freely being able to choose whatever option lies ahead. Nevertheless, sometimes it seems funny for me how on certain case some women are exceedingly greedy to have both--career and being a mom, while in fact it's like almost impossible to be done, not with a sacrifice from one part nor the other. Take this woman for example, she's like happily married, and had a good career as a lecturer. But somewhat she wanted more and left her two-year-old to study abroad. Just for her own ambition? And she dare to say she misses her child! If she misses him, she wouldn't have left him on the first place! Such hypocrite. I wonder how's her husband feeling 'bout this, would he be annoyed? (Served to the fact that his wife like "abandoned" her child for the sake of her own dream?) Or would he be an apathetic minor person that just say "yes" (a yes man indeed) to whatever his wife asked for? I wonder where did this man's ego went to...hmmm. If you could be wiser, don't push yourself into marriage if you still want to pursue your OWN dream, especially when a child is being involved (read: actually born) in the marriage. There would be a lot more sacrifice to be made just to feed your hunger for self-estimation, glory, and what-so-ever, everything that you actually can achieve BEFORE you're attached to a bunch of people due to your marriage. Or can a reconciliation be made in order to praise this egoistical "MOTHERLY" act? Why did you decide to becoming a mother anyways, if your own consideration always be put as a priority? I'm not exactly a misogynist, I'm not that feminist either. But what I can't understand is why do they choose this part and then blaming the situation? It's your freaking own fault to loose your child (in someway) and win over your ambition. So, i'm only an observer (since i'm still single and obviously don't have babies), but I pitied them who left their child just for their own ego. What the hell are they thinking? Making those babies then just carry on with your own purpose??? c'mon, u've got responsibility now, ma'am... as a freaking mother.