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The necessity to have children (especially in the so-called third world country)



The grandmas and grandpas always expecting their son/daughter and in laws to reproduce their descendent, unfortunately, sometime the responsibility comes a little bit to late. The son/daughter and in laws themselves seem not ready for having children--chased alone by "the deadline", they don't give a s*it about taking good care of their precious sucklings. Sometimes they altered the responsibility to people surround them. Is it a good thing? at least parents have to be there at essential times for the sake of their children. And even though i'm not a mom yet, it terrifies me how lack of cooperation and coordination parents can be. And it really scares me! I don't know a thing 'bout baby care... and it's like everyone's pushing me into getting to marriage and eventually create those little people! Well, for you guys who had been through this maybe laugh at your might of my paranoid statement, but I think one child is enough--if compares to the hardship of it. I can't believe my parents actually got through of having three children like me and my two siblings--we all sure difficult to handled. One is obviously enough. And maybe next year it will be my turn to suffer from being pushed.

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