What girls do (and always do)

I still don't understand until now why girls like to gather up? (I have my girlfriends too, but they seem to not be around when I need 'em...so, wth). When they gather up the things they talked are relatively the same, if not about boys, about other girls and their gossips, or bragging themselves. And how hilarious it can be when other girls acted so nice in your face, while in fact they talk dirty behind your back! You wouldn't know how savage and malicious a girl can be, if someone offended her brag-about-stuff and perhaps just state as a better person than she is!

The thing is, after I keenly did an observation on facebook, obviously still there're typically three things showed up there from girls:
(1) Brag
(2) Envy
(3) Anxiety
Things other than those three stand irrelevantly and not worthy enough (from my perspective) to be viewed anyway...

Take example this girl, always talked about her boyfriend, as if she's afraid she'd be taken by someone else. While actually she's just BRAG about how POPULAR she is! Wow! Look humble, yet poisonous!

Another example is about a girl that put up her achievement-sort-like but tag it as "unimportant". Wth?! c'mon gal, if it's not important then why d'you put it there in the first place? And people who commented her will be praised by her, but not in a pure way--by expressing how nothing her achievement is compared to that person's (again: humble, yet poisonous! Wow...this scores for two: brag AND envy)

For anxiety, if people know how unstable she is, then she can get sympathy from everyone--which stated that SHE IS POPULAR. Wow!!!
How amazed I am with these girls and their acts.

I wonder, am I the same? :))

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