Can't believe finally getting married. Not that I want to (like really want to) but kinda must to. It's like trying to walk a pathway to Timbuctu from Jakarta, bare-feet. The [perception] on how an unmarried woman remains as she is tickled the society more than it's supposed to be--forcing both parents to drag her into marriage life. Single woman means: unworthy , unlikable (by men), old-maid/hag , unhappy , and so on (you could add this list until forever if you get my point). Even your supposed-to-be-supportive-same-gender-parent (name it: Mom) forces you more into marrying any guy (like literally any Martian there is, as long as you won't be on your own) if you don't have your own. What I am trying to say is being single is not an option , especially if you are a woman and getting closer to your thirties. The tension become more and more severe along with time, while all (well not all, but just some or i must say most on facebook ) put on the...
sometimes you just need to write down everything